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THE PHANTOM REALITY AND PSYCHODRAMATIC PRACTICЕ

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Iryna .M. Serhiyenko,THE PHANTOM REALITY AND PSYCHODRAMATIC PRACTICЕ. 140 p.


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Contents
Introduction
SECTION 1. CONCEPT OF PHANTOM REALITY

The psychological phantom phenomena – what is it?
Definition of the phantom reality
Loss as a reason of appearance of phantom individuals
Why it is necessary to study the phantom reality?
Why does it make sense to say goodbye to phantoms?
Groups of the people, inclined to get into phantom reality
Phantom reality: is it a shelter or a trap?
Phantoms as the way of avoiding the feeling of loneliness
Loss of relations and phantom reality
Phantom support for a personality and depression
About the phantom of the personal importance
Phantom feelings is the "fuel" for daily living activities
Phantoms are psychological idols
Anger, offense and phantoms
Depressions as a divergence of phantom and true realities
Life with the phantom individuals leads to the fantomization of one's own personality
Life with the illusions (phantoms) as the way to schizophrenia
Fears and reality
The psychodrama helps to find phantom individuals

SECTION 2. RELATIONSHIPS WITH PARENTS AS BASIS OF FORMING OF PHANTOM REALITY FOR CHILD

Strong parents constitute duality of influence on children
Strong parents – great expectations related to children
Strong parents – weak children
"Strong" individuals – heroes and/or tyrants repeat themselves in grandchildren
Strong parents – weak children – strong grandchildren
Strict parents – lying children (the phantom of "an ideal child" and its influence on the real child)
Technique of "Psychodrama revision"
Phantom of a mother and reasons of its emergence
The phantom of an ideal mother brings up a depression of young mothers
The phantom of an overprotective mother
The phantom of an overprotective mother-in-law
Distancing of a mother and dependencies of their children
Phantom parents and psychological orphanhood of children
"Mother, stop educating me, I am already an adult "
Phantom children, brothers, sisters.
Fears of children at teenage age – danger of mental disorders
Fear of feedback from parents – reality alienation

SECTION 3. PHANTOM PERSONS IN THE RELATIONS WITH THE PARTNER

Man, woman and phantoms
Fantomization an image of the man in the modern world
Modern woman and phantom of "an Amazon"
Mirage of love
Love and the phantom ideal
The incomplete relations with the partner – phantom "traces"
Love and ghosts of past (phantoms from the past)
Love, jealousy and phantom individuals
Anger of a woman for a male offender and the traumatic phantom image
Phantom family – what is it?
Phantom family – lying to oneself
The depression seeks or creates the phantom of "the bad partner"
The "bottle" phantom or why do the women choose the men who drink?
Phantom individuals and change
Agreement on the phantom reality
How to release the phantom of "an ex-husband"?
The conflicts in a family, divorce of parents – danger of emergence of phantoms in their children
The conflicts in a family are connected with the phantoms of the past
How do phantoms influence the true relations with a partner?
Principles of the positive family relations

SECTION 4. THE RELATIONS BETWEEN BROTHERS, SISTERS AND PHANTOMS

The siblings – "house terrorism"
The relations of the siblings based on the example of the movie metaphor of "Artificial intelligence"
The siblings – invisible house war
"War of the siblings" сщтештгуы in marriage with a partner
Phantom siblings

SECTION 5. INFLUENCE OF PHANTOMS ON HEALTH OF A PERSON

Excess weight and phantoms
Excess weight and reality alienation
Excess weight and phantoms in soul
Phantom pregnancy – what is it?
Phantoms and role of " sufferer" in a family

SECTION 6. ACCEPTANCE OF REALITY AND DEVELOPMENT OF THE PERSONALITY

Reality is not so horrible as a bear: it is possible to make friends with it!
Migration and phantom reality
Saying farewell to phantom individuals brings the person out of infantilism
Overcome the fear of living in the real world
Love of close and far reality
The love of close reality is stronger in women and children
Phantom individuals can abort their existence
Let's make friends with reality instead of loving the phantoms!

Appendix A. The test questionnaire "Where does your "I" live?